Things My Momma Taught Me About Dating:

As a young girl your Mom teaches you independence, to be assertive, and depend on your self and not a man. Then when puberty hits all that stuff momma taught takes a back seat. So you start to date. Your probrably in high school walking the halls with what you think is your first love but really its young love. So you go on your first date and this is where moms date talk comes in to play. You realize that this negro is only trying to “GET THEM DRAWS”………

So what do you do now???? Give up them draws or risk not haveing a man????

Hell to the no girl!!!! Keep those legs tight is the first rule on earning your respect with any man. Make his ass wait and if he cant wait he is not the one. Remember that you are a black princesses and queens. No real man wants a loose lucy……

Another thing momma taught was “IF HE CANT USE YOUR COMB DONT BRING HIM  HOME”, well I totally disgree with momma on this one. Black men are not for every women but they are right for me, to each it’s own meaning choose what you like but be wise. No matter what the race is of your man they will always be some shit with any man.

Which bring me to the next thing momma taught, “NO NEGRO YOU CAN NOT STAY THE NIGHT”….. If you have just started seeing a man he should not be home bound after a few dates. If you don't have your own or are not independent  no job and trying to get after my success honey you are not the one. This is a red flag from the get go……You turn to that man and say good night it is 10pm which means time for you to go the hell home to where you live. Yeah you love him or care about him but earn you respect from a man. He will appreciate you more in the end.

And last ladies never ignore the signs of a man trying to take control over you. You always honor your family, moroles, and respect your self. Any man who doesnt respect you or just wants to control you is not a real man. There are plenty of datetable men out there but you want one who doesnt mind your independance of wanting more for yourself like when you make your money and take care of those kids in your household. Yes the man is the king of castle but the women is the queen of the throne. He needs to know his place just like we know ours. So if you are out here dating remember what momma told you because you never know when you will have to call momma for another one on one about the dating scene………

Written by: Mrsjonesvirgo