Wifey Vs. Wife

Wifey Vs. Wife

I don't know about you but I have always hated this term. I always hated it because of what it means and what it doesn't mean.

wife  (wf)
n. pl. wives (wvz)

A woman joined to another person in marriage; a female spouse.

that was from Websters dictionary...

Wifey

not mentioned on webster's dictionary however we have...

Wifey

A REAL Lady, Not your only but your favourite, different from them hood rat chicks. Sexy in everyway possible, when she smiles it's sexy, even when she's mad at you it's sexy.

This is from urban dictionary Wifey - urban dictionary and note there are actually misspellings in the meaning.

So now what's the difference and why do I hate the term Wifey?

It's stated above plain and simple what a wife is. A wife is a female joined by a legal union to a man under god. She is the person that is the glue that holds a family together. I also heard this quote last week and it sums it up perfect. "A wife will say what's needed to be said when her husband can't". Now that is not to say her husband is weak in any way, but it's to say that a wife KNOWS whats best for her man even when he doesn't.

How is that different from a Wifey. Well most women start out as little girls. Those little girls play games like "dress up" and "house" and sometimes even "doctor". Most little girl think about their wedding very early in life.

This is done because every little girl is naturally embedded to care, naturally built to be a mother, naturally embedded to one day fall in love. (To her knight in shinning armor)

No girl plays "fuck buddy" no girl plays "baby mama"

and no girl imagines her night in shinny armor having to move into her place. Now don't get me wrong a "wifey" can be everything listed as above. It's just that the term "wifey" is a term that gives a false sense of security to women because most wifeys never become wives.

For a "wifey" there is no ring. A promise ring is not a ring. A wedding ring is a ring. A promise ring is also a false sense of security. A promise ring is given to shut women up. The difference between a promise ring and a wedding ring is the significance.

Intentions cost nothing but mean everything. When a man buys a ring, the ring doesn't come with a tag that states what it it for. When the man presents said ring to said women he states what it is for. When he gives you a ring and says it's a promise ring it means nothing, when he gives you a ring and asks to spend the rest of your life with him, it means everything.

For a "wifey" there is not ring, there is no church.

There is no pastor, no reception, no stretch limo with the sign just married on the back. There are no wedding bells and daddy doesn't walk a wifey down the isle.

So when the subject or the actual presentation of a ring happens make sure your man buys you the right ring. As I stated before intentions don't coast a thing. When your man presents to you a ring make sure he presents to you last name his heart, soul and the opportunity to spend the rest of his life with you. The size of the ring nor the price of the ring makes a difference. The only difference are the obligations behind ring. Make sure when you get a ring be sure that you get his intentions and his heart as well.

The term wifey should not be acceptable to you. If your man can call you "wifey" he can call you his wife.