Showing posts with label women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label women. Show all posts

Friday, May 31, 2013

Most bizarre online dating sites




This site is filled with gothy EMO types who’ll take you to see The Cure and read you Victorian poetry. While you’ll see plenty of eyeliner, lip rings and tattoos on Gothic Match, most members are ordinary people simply looking to connect with someone who appreciates the darker side of life.




Embrace your inner nerd on this dating site for not just Star Trek and Star Wars lovers but all sci-fi fans. Find a fella who shares your Battlestar Galactica zeal, speaks Elvish and wants to attend Comic-Con in matching Spock ears. With a 25:1 male to female user ratio, Trek Passions offers you the pick of the geek litter. Who needs a bad boy when you can have a fanboy?



Date by the book at this spot that pairs partners based on reading preferences. While Alikewise is perfect for serious bookworms looking for a lad who’ll debate the last line of Lolita, more casual readers can connect with guys who share their more general interests like cooking or travel. Browsing a man’s virtual bookshelf—complete with notes on each entry—can reveal a lot about his intelligence, humor and taste, three factors that could help you write your own happy ending.



While discussing politics is taboo on a first date, where you stand is bound to influence your relationship down the road. These two dating sites, Blue State for Democrats and Red State for Republicans, match singles based on a three-part assessment that covers economic matters, foreign policy and social issues. You won’t be bridging the bipartisan gap, but you may find a lifetime running mate.



If long walks with your Jack Russell or couch time with your cat are an important aspect of your daily life, you’ll need a man who understands that your pet is part of the family. Visit Must Love Pets and get your paws dirty: You may just find a pal for Fido, too.



Most dating sites ask about everything from relationship history and religious beliefs to body type and workout preferences. But Same Plate believes the way to the heart is through the stomach. Enter your favorite cuisines along with any dietary restrictions and the site will set you up with a local who shares your culinary lifestyle. Even if it’s not a love connection, at least you’ll get some decent pad thai.



Founded by two Harvard Business School grads, Ivy Date claims to offer up men who are leaders in fields like medicine, business and law. While you don’t have to be an Ivy League alum to use the site, members are screened to make sure they’re smart, interesting and driven.



If you believe that mother knows best, then let her do the matchmaking at Date My Single Kid, a site where parents create profiles and post pictures for their kids. Nervous about letting mom meddle? Consider this: She not only knows you well, but wants you to be happy and is your biggest advocate. Plus, she’s going to stick her nose in your love life regardless so you may as well give her the best tools to work with.



Build houses while laying the foundation for your relationship or restore fisheries to spark an animal attraction at Your Cause or Mine, a free dating site that matches members based on philanthropic interests. Rallying around a common cause creates a low-pressure environment with far fewer of those anxiety-inducing awkward silences frequently found on first dates.


**This next ones for me!!!***



Women who really like bad boys can start a pen pal relationship with this unusual online service. While we don’t advocate dating a convicted felon—or any criminal for that matter—we had to share Meet-An-Inmate to prove that there’s a dating website out there for absolutely everyone, including jailbirds and the girls who want to love them from beyond the bars.

Saturday, January 5, 2013

Wifey Vs. Wife


Wifey Vs. Wife

I don't know about you but I have always hated this term. I always hated it because of what it means and what it doesn't mean.

wife  (wf)
n. pl. wives (wvz)

A woman joined to another person in marriage; a female spouse.


that was from Websters dictionary...

Wifey

not mentioned on webster's dictionary however we have...

Wifey

A REAL Lady, Not your only but your favourite, different from them hood rat chicks. Sexy in everyway possible, when she smiles it's sexy, even when she's mad at you it's sexy.

This is from urban dictionary Wifey - urban dictionary and note there are actually misspellings in the meaning.

So now what's the difference and why do I hate the term Wifey?

It's stated above plain and simple what a wife is. A wife is a female joined by a legal union to a man under god. She is the person that is the glue that holds a family together. I also heard this quote last week and it sums it up perfect. "A wife will say what's needed to be said when her husband can't". Now that is not to say her husband is weak in any way, but it's to say that a wife KNOWS whats best for her man even when he doesn't.

How is that different from a Wifey. Well most women start out as little girls. Those little girls play games like "dress up" and "house" and sometimes even "doctor". Most little girl think about their wedding very early in life.



This is done because every little girl is naturally embedded to care, naturally built to be a mother, naturally embedded to one day fall in love. (To her knight in shinning armor)

No girl plays "fuck buddy" no girl plays "baby mama"


and no girl imagines her night in shinny armor having to move into her place. Now don't get me wrong a "wifey" can be everything listed as above. It's just that the term "wifey" is a term that gives a false sense of security to women because most wifeys never become wives.

For a "wifey" there is no ring. A promise ring is not a ring. A wedding ring is a ring. A promise ring is also a false sense of security. A promise ring is given to shut women up. The difference between a promise ring and a wedding ring is the significance.



Intentions cost nothing but mean everything. When a man buys a ring, the ring doesn't come with a tag that states what it it for. When the man presents said ring to said women he states what it is for. When he gives you a ring and says it's a promise ring it means nothing, when he gives you a ring and asks to spend the rest of your life with him, it means everything.

For a "wifey" there is not ring, there is no church.



There is no pastor, no reception, no stretch limo with the sign just married on the back. There are no wedding bells and daddy doesn't walk a wifey down the isle.



So when the subject or the actual presentation of a ring happens make sure your man buys you the right ring. As I stated before intentions don't coast a thing. When your man presents to you a ring make sure he presents to you last name his heart, soul and the opportunity to spend the rest of his life with you. The size of the ring nor the price of the ring makes a difference. The only difference are the obligations behind ring. Make sure when you get a ring be sure that you get his intentions and his heart as well.




The term wifey should not be acceptable to you. If your man can call you "wifey" he can call you his wife.




Thursday, September 20, 2012

Things My Momma Taught Me About Dating:



As a young girl your Mom teaches you independence, to be assertive, and depend on your self and not a man. Then when puberty hits all that stuff momma taught takes a back seat. So you start to date. Your probrably in high school walking the halls with what you think is your first love but really its young love. So you go on your first date and this is where moms date talk comes in to play. You realize that this negro is only trying to “GET THEM DRAWS”………

So what do you do now???? Give up them draws or risk not haveing a man????
Hell to the no girl!!!! Keep those legs tight is the first rule on earning your respect with any man. Make his ass wait and if he cant wait he is not the one. Remember that you are a black princesses and queens. No real man wants a loose lucy……

Another thing momma taught was “IF HE CANT USE YOUR COMB DONT BRING HIM  HOME”, well I totally disgree with momma on this one. Black men are not for every women but they are right for me, to each it’s own meaning choose what you like but be wise. No matter what the race is of your man they will always be some shit with any man.

Which bring me to the next thing momma taught, “NO NEGRO YOU CAN NOT STAY THE NIGHT”….. If you have just started seeing a man he should not be home bound after a few dates. If you don't have your own or are not independent  no job and trying to get after my success honey you are not the one. This is a red flag from the get go……You turn to that man and say good night it is 10pm which means time for you to go the hell home to where you live. Yeah you love him or care about him but earn you respect from a man. He will appreciate you more in the end.

And last ladies never ignore the signs of a man trying to take control over you. You always honor your family, moroles, and respect your self. Any man who doesnt respect you or just wants to control you is not a real man. There are plenty of datetable men out there but you want one who doesnt mind your independance of wanting more for yourself like when you make your money and take care of those kids in your household. Yes the man is the king of castle but the women is the queen of the throne. He needs to know his place just like we know ours. So if you are out here dating remember what momma told you because you never know when you will have to call momma for another one on one about the dating scene………

Written by: Mrsjonesvirgo